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IT'S JAPPLEACK! ([personal profile] caneattheseapples) wrote in [community profile] crystalclods2015-10-09 09:19 pm

IC ANON MEME

THE IC ANON MEME!!

It's function rambunction let me show you the rules:
1. Post with yourself if you want and let others respond to you with anon statements
2. Post ICly as your character as if in an anon community: bring up topics to talk about anonymously, ect. ect.
3. Respond to anything posted ICly. This is not an OOC anon.
4. IC getting pissed/wank at other IC characters is allowable, OOC wank it not.
5. Have fun!

(Anonymous) 2015-10-10 05:13 am (UTC)(link)
So here's some sappy, worthless crap to ask you all.

Let's say you loved a person. Like, love loved a person. Stupid stuff like you were sure they were the one. It's dumb and hard to express but that's how I feel about this person.

Now let's say you're sure you're never going to see them again.

I know that's never going to stop hurting. But I guess what I want to know is, when should you try and move on.

Is it ever right to try and move on?

(Anonymous) 2015-10-10 05:25 am (UTC)(link)
Well... I think that sometimes it is actually important to move on. For your sake! Whoever is gone is gone, but you are still here, and it's okay to focus on whatever will help you.

Moving on doesn't mean forgetting the person who is gone. It just means you don't let their absence control your life anymore.

As for when that should happen.... well, I am not sure I know that. I think it depends on you more than anything. Sorry this was not more helpful! But I hope that you will accept a big anonymous hug.

(Anonymous) 2015-10-10 05:34 am (UTC)(link)
If you don't try to move on, it's going to ruin you. No person can cling to something like that forever, much as you might want to, and even if the memories are better than anything else you can remember having.

The right time to move on is whenever you're capable of it. It hurts, but in the long term, it's far less unhealthy.

(Anonymous) 2015-10-10 05:52 am (UTC)(link)
Moving on's the only thing you can do!

Love is something that'll only just destroy you anyway! It's a trap that drags you down and takes away who you are! I'm not saying ya shouldn't care about this person, but when ya give yourself to somebody else, there's always a chance you'll lose yourself along with 'em!

Or if you're like me, it's a guarantee you'll lose 'em someday, so that's not something you can afford!

All ya can do is cherish the good times ya had with them and remember the universe is an incomprehensibly enormous place! Out there are infinite more friends for you to make infinite more memories with!

(Anonymous) 2015-10-10 05:55 am (UTC)(link)
Up yours.

Losing myself to someone else is the best thing that could happen to me.

Other friends, sure.

Other hers I could run into out there? Absolutely possible.

The her? Never happening again.

I don't care about the infinity of the expanse. I care about what I've known, or can know, now.

(Anonymous) 2015-10-10 06:24 am (UTC)(link)
And you're happy with that? Devoting the rest of your existence to only one thing when the world's got so much to offer?

Then again, I guess if you've got a short life...
Well, I'm not telling you how to spend the rest of your time in the mortal coil! But for those of us who live forever...

That's the scariest word there is.

(Anonymous) 2015-10-10 06:27 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah. I am. More than anything else I tried.

I know. I got to deal with immortality for a bit too. Crap is a curse.

(Anonymous) 2015-10-10 06:42 am (UTC)(link)
I always thought it was a blessing...

Yaknow, maybe in ways, it's both.

(Anonymous) 2015-10-10 06:44 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe for those who start out that way, it's fine. If it's like part of who you are.

Those who just gain it?

Naw.

It sucks.

(Anonymous) 2015-10-10 06:49 am (UTC)(link)
I guess since I was born immortal, I'll have to take your word for it!

I think I see how that makes sense though! There's always that wondering about what could've been, what if you'd just lived an ordinary mortal life like ya were probably supposed to!

It's the one thing you'll never know. Well, maybe!
There's always alternate realities! Haha!

(Anonymous) 2015-10-10 07:25 am (UTC)(link)
Already know one or two of my alternate realities.

Pretty sure I've gotten the better deal.

(Anonymous) 2015-10-10 07:31 am (UTC)(link)
It is right to move on.

But when varies.

Sometimes it's never to right time for you.

(Anonymous) 2015-10-10 07:33 am (UTC)(link)
Not the best news.

But it is what I've thought for a while.

(Anonymous) 2015-10-10 06:51 pm (UTC)(link)
I've asked friends in this situation to move on before. Guess I'll need to again.

It helps that one of them found someone else and was happy, but...